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Chapter 235 Can Explode at Any Time

The Mizukage paused and continued, "Look at Fukangan's character. He is always fighting and killing. He must be very irritable. How can such a person get along well with your daughter? Maybe they will quarrel over a disagreement, and the family will be in chaos. It's like putting a bomb in the house, which may explode at any time. Your daughter is so gentle and kind, she can't stand such a person. Moreover, Your Majesty, Fukangan is used to giving orders on the battlefield, and he may not be able to change this habit when he returns home. Then your daughter will be angry with him, right? This won't do. Your daughter is looking for someone who respects her. She should be a man who loves her, not a dictator. Also, Your Majesty, don't forget that Fu Kang'an is always fighting outside, and he must be in contact with many people. Who knows if he will have affairs outside? If your daughter finds out, she will be heartbroken. This is like "a rat shit spoils the whole pot of porridge". You can't marry your daughter to such an unreliable person. You have to find a son-in-law who is loyal, loyal, gentle and considerate. Fu Kang'an is far from that. If you marry your daughter to him, it would be like "sticking a rose in dog shit - it's a waste."

The Great Emperor Zhenwu raised his chin slightly, with admiration in his eyes, and said slowly: "Look at this He Lin, he is really a person who should not be underestimated. This person is quite talented and can show extraordinary wisdom in many matters. When he deals with problems, he is calm and steady, and his thinking is quick. Like a wise counselor, he can always find the best solution in a complex situation. His talents are not limited to a specific field. Whether it is political or military affairs, he can handle it with ease. In officialdom, he has insight into people's hearts, is good at interacting with people, and can skillfully balance the interests of all parties, winning himself a lot of praise and support. This kind of ability is not something that ordinary people can possess.

Furthermore, He Lin is a potential stock. He is young and promising, full of vigor and vitality, and has unlimited development potential. Just like a pearl that has not yet fully blossomed, it will surely shine brightly as long as it is given the right opportunities and time. He has great ambitions and ideals, is unwilling to be mediocre, dares to challenge himself, and constantly pursues higher goals. This positive spirit is really precious. In the days to come, he will be able to display his talents on a broader stage and bring honor and glory to the family. If he can become my son-in-law, it will be a good story. With him by my side, my daughter can also be inspired and influenced by him, grow together, and make progress together. Isn't such a man an ideal candidate for a son-in-law?"

The emperor nodded slightly, with a hint of admiration in his eyes. "Look at He Lin, he is indeed talented. He has made a name for himself in the officialdom and has a promising future. Such a person is like an unpolished jade. With a little polishing, he will surely shine brightly. If he becomes my son-in-law, he may bring new glory to the family. Moreover, talented people are often motivated and will continue to work hard to create a better life for themselves and their families. He Lin is such a person with potential and is worth considering."

After hearing this, Shuiying shook his head repeatedly with a look of disdain on his face. "Your Majesty, Helin is talented, but he is his younger brother. Heshen is a corrupt official, and Helin will definitely be affected. If he becomes your son-in-law, who knows what troubles he will cause in the future. You can't have him. Think about it, Heshen is a corrupt official who is rich enough to rival a country. As his younger brother, how can Helin not be affected? As the saying goes, 'A red plum becomes redder when it is close to a red plum, and a black plum becomes blacker when it is close to a black plum'. Helin is with Heshen all day long, and maybe he has learned those corrupt methods. Even if he looks very talented and upright now, who can guarantee that he will not change in the future? This is like a time bomb that may explode at any time. Can you rest assured to marry your daughter to such a potential risk? Moreover, Your Majesty, don't forget that Heshen has such a bad reputation. If Helin becomes your son-in-law, won't our family also be criticized? This is not okay. . Your daughter is a royal concubine, you have to find someone who is clean and has no stain. He Lin obviously does not meet this standard. If you marry your daughter to him, it would be like "sticking flowers in cow dung - wasting it". Also, Your Majesty, in today's society, honesty and integrity are very important. He Lin has a corrupt official brother, which makes people doubt his integrity. Who knows if he will do something immoral to help He Shen cover up his crimes? How can such a person be your son-in-law? You have to think about your daughter's happiness and the reputation of your family. When looking for a son-in-law, you have to find a person with noble moral character, honesty, trustworthiness, and incorruptibility. He Lin is far from that. If you marry your daughter to him, you will regret it in the future. At that time, you will be like "a dumb person eating Coptis chinensis - unable to express your pain". "

Emperor Zhenwu: "Qishan, you have some skills in diplomatic affairs."

The emperor narrowed his eyes slightly, as if recalling Qishan's deeds. "Qishan is indeed quite capable in diplomatic affairs. He can deal with foreigners and gain some benefits for the country. Such a person, with brains and strategies, might be able to make greater contributions to the country in diplomacy if he became my son-in-law. Moreover, Qishan's calmness and wit will also allow him to remain calm in the face of various complex situations and find ways to solve problems. This is a very rare quality."

Mizukage snorted coldly, his face full of disapproval. "Your Majesty, Qishan is not capable of anything. He compromised and gave in during the Opium War, bringing shame to our country. Can you trust such a person as your son-in-law? Definitely not. Think about it, Qishan compromised and gave in during the Opium War, handing over the interests of the country. He is like a coward who retreats when faced with difficulties. His behavior makes foreigners more arrogant and puts our country into a more passive situation. How can such a person be your son-in-law? He has no national integrity and no sense of responsibility. If your daughter marries him, she will be laughed at in the future. What? And, Your Majesty, in today's society, patriotism and responsibility are very important qualities. Qishan failed to stand up for the country at a critical moment, but chose to compromise instead, which shows that he did not care about the interests of the country at all. How can such a person be entrusted with life? This is like "a bad apple spoils the whole pot of porridge". You can't marry your daughter to such an unreliable person. You have to find a son-in-law who is patriotic, responsible, and brave. Qishan is far from that. If you marry your daughter to him, it would really be "letting a wolf into the house - asking for trouble." "

Emperor Zhenwu: "Qiying, Qiying is experienced in diplomatic negotiations."

The emperor raised his chin slightly, with a hint of expectation in his eyes. "Qiying is a man of experience in diplomatic negotiations. He has extensive experience in dealing with foreigners and can understand their ideas and needs. If such a person were my son-in-law, he might be able to make suggestions for the country's diplomatic cause. Moreover, Qiying's calmness and wit would also give him an advantage in diplomatic negotiations and help him gain more benefits for the country. This is a very rare quality."

Mizukage shook his head, his face full of helplessness. "Your Majesty, Qiying is a coward. He always suffers losses in diplomacy and has no backbone at all. If he becomes your son-in-law, wouldn't that make others laugh at us? No. Think about it, Qiying always gives in in diplomatic negotiations and has no principles. He is like a soft persimmon that anyone can pinch. How can such a person be your son-in-law? He has no national integrity and dignity. If your daughter marries him, won't she be bullied in the future? Moreover, Your Majesty, in today's society, self-respect and self-reliance are very important. The qualities that are needed. Qiying failed to safeguard the dignity and interests of the country in diplomacy, but chose to compromise instead, which shows that he did not care about the honor of the country at all. How can such a person be entrusted with life? This is like "pushing your daughter into a fire pit - asking for trouble". You can't marry your daughter to such an unreliable person. When looking for a son-in-law, you have to find a man with backbone, dignity, self-respect and self-reliance. Qiying is far from that. If you marry your daughter to him, it would be "a flower stuck in cow dung - a pity". "

Zhenwu Emperor: "Lin Zexu, the opium destroyer at Humen, a national hero."

The emperor showed a trace of admiration in his eyes. "Lin Zexu is a national hero. He destroyed opium at Humen and was feared by the world. He made great contributions to the country and the nation. If such a person is courageous and responsible, it would be a great honor for me, the Zhenwu Emperor, to be my son-in-law. Moreover, Lin Zexu's patriotism and sense of justice will also influence my daughter and make her a responsible person. This is a very rare quality."

Shuiying frowned and said with some concern: "Your Majesty, Lin Zexu is a hero, but he is busy with state affairs all day long. How can he have time to take care of his family? Your daughter can't find a son-in-law who doesn't care about his family. Think about it, Lin Zexu is devoted to state affairs and is busy all day long. How can he have time to accompany your daughter? Marriage requires two people to work together, and they need to accompany and support each other. If Lin Zexu is busy outside all day long, won't your daughter be very lonely? It's like a person singing a one-man show without any music. "It's fun. And, Your Majesty, in today's society, family and career are both important. Although Lin Zexu has made great achievements in his career, if he can't take care of his family, he is not a perfect son-in-law. You have to think about your daughter's happiness. When looking for a son-in-law, you have to find someone who can achieve success in his career and take care of his family. Lin Zexu doesn't meet this standard. If you marry your daughter to him, your daughter will suffer in the future. At that time, she will be like a dumb person eating coptis chinensis - she can't say her pain."

Emperor Zhenwu: "Wei Yuan proposed 'learning the skills of foreigners to control them', which is a thoughtful idea."

The emperor nodded slightly, his eyes flashing with thought. "Look at Wei Yuan, he is a man with great ideas. 'Learn from the barbarians to defeat them', this slogan is loud and clear, and this concept is even more forward-looking. In that era, everyone was immersed in the traditional way of thinking, but Wei Yuan was able to see the advanced aspects of the Western powers and boldly proposed to learn from them to fight against them. This is like lighting a bright lamp in the darkness, guiding the direction for the confused people. His thoughts are like a clear spring, injecting new vitality and hope into that dull era. Wei Yuan has such a realm of thought, which shows that he has a broad vision and deep insight. If such a person becomes my son-in-law, he will definitely bring new atmosphere to the family. He can discuss the general situation of the world with me and make suggestions for the future of the family. Moreover, his thoughts will also influence my daughter, making her more intelligent and knowledgeable. Isn't such a combination a good thing?"

After hearing this, Mizukage curled his lips, his face full of disapproval. "Your Majesty, Wei Yuan has ideas, but they are just talk on paper. The dynasty is already like that, and he hasn't really changed anything. As your son-in-law, what's the use of just having ideas? It's not practical. Think about it, although Wei Yuan proposed the slogan of 'learning from the barbarians to control the barbarians', it was just talk on paper. What about in reality? He didn't really implement this concept, nor did he bring substantial changes to the country. It's like a person who shouts about losing weight all day long, but never exercises or controls his diet. What's the use of slogans? Moreover, Your Majesty, in today's society, actual actions are the most important. Wei Yuan only has ideas, but no actions. How can he be your son-in-law? What your daughter needs is a man who can really protect her from the wind and rain. , someone who can bring practical benefits to the family. Wei Yuan obviously does not meet this standard. Also, Your Majesty, don't forget that although Wei Yuan's ideas are advanced, they were difficult to be accepted by people in that era. He is like a lonely traveler. Although he has lofty ideals, he cannot get the support of the public. What good can such a person do as your son-in-law? Maybe it will bring trouble to the family. It's like "a scholar meets a soldier - he has a point but can't explain it clearly." Can you rest assured to hand your daughter to such a person? To find a son-in-law, you have to find someone who is down-to-earth, has practical actions, and can create a better life for the family. Wei Yuan is far from that. If you marry your daughter to him, it would really be "pushing your daughter into a fire pit - asking for trouble." "

Mizukage paused and continued, "Look at Wei Yuan's character. He is immersed in his own world of thought all day long and is out of touch with the world. How can such a person get along well with your daughter? Your daughter needs someone who cares for her and loves her, not a nerd who only knows how to think about great principles all day long. Moreover, although Wei Yuan's thoughts are advanced, they are also very radical. In that conservative era, his thoughts can easily cause controversy and conflict. Can you guarantee that he will not bring disaster to the family because of his thoughts? This is like 'playing with fire and getting burned - asking for trouble'. Your Majesty, you have to think about your daughter's happiness. Don't be fooled by Wei Yuan's superficial thoughts. When looking for a son-in-law, you have to find a steady, pragmatic and responsible person. Wei Yuan does not meet this standard. If you marry your daughter to him, you will regret it in the future. At that time, it will be like 'a dumb person eating coptis - unable to express his pain'."