Chapter 572
Chapter 572
Chapter 572
Zheng Bin stared at Zhou Zheng in surprise. He didn't expect Zhou Zheng to say such a thing, so after thinking for half a second, he immediately said, "What do you mean by that? Why did this happen? Can it be complicated for other people, but easy for you? Don't forget that the negative effects of this situation are the same for anyone, and it hurts you as much as it does for others. There is no half difference in the damage. You actually said that it would be easy for you to encounter such a situation. I think your conclusion is the result of not thinking carefully. If you think about it a little bit, it will not be so. said."
Zhou Zheng thought to himself, as expected, it is my brother Zheng Bin who considers things comprehensively. He has actually thought that I have not thought deeply about this issue. He said these words to me in an educational tone, which is obviously to make me pay attention. For this problem, it is better not to act blindly when encountering such a situation in the days of playing football, so as to cause a catastrophe. I really did not expect his good intentions.
Zhou Zheng suddenly felt warm in his heart, he smiled, and expressed his thoughts without any concealment: "It's like this, Brother Bin, don't worry, just listen to me slowly.
This is what I think. If the situation you just mentioned happens to other people, the problem will be quite complicated and troublesome. People who encounter this kind of problem will definitely think about it and think about how to deal with it. He may think of , Did my teammates pass the ball so slowly against me on purpose?Afraid of stealing the limelight from the rest of the team after scoring a goal?Or the coach made arrangements for him before playing, telling him not to pass the ball quickly after I run out of opportunities, lest I get a chance to score, no matter which of the above two guesses is correct, That means that I have lost popularity in this team, and there is no need to stay here anymore, and I don’t need to be angry because of this kind of thing, because once it is caused by the two reasons just now, Even if I lose my temper and make a big fuss, I will definitely lose face. Whether it is the rest of the team or the team's head coach, they will definitely not stand on my side.
With this conclusion in mind, the victim will definitely want to swallow this breath, play the game swallowed, and then seek a transfer or leave the team after the game, and never play again.
Originally, this matter might have ended here, but people have emotions. Just now, the victim tried his best to run such an excellent offensive opportunity. As a result, the teammate who got the ball deliberately slowed down the passing speed, so that He missed the best opportunity to catch the ball, which also caused the team to lose an offensive opportunity in vain. Originally, the teammate who passed the ball slowly should be responsible for the failed offense, but later he found that this was not the case. They cast eyes at him, and some teammates even taunted him in front of his face, saying that if he doesn’t know how to run, don’t run around. Everyone took the ball and attacked for a long time, and finally developed the ball to the front of the opponent’s penalty area. Because of this kid's stupid movement, all the results of everyone's hard work for a long time were wasted.
It's not just my teammates who blamed me like this. Generally, when encountering such a situation, the head coach of the team will definitely be furious. You can guess, for example, what will the head coach say?Don’t run if you don’t know how to run. You can pull to the side to support it. Why do you have to run to the middle? Do you think you are Ronaldo Messi? You have such good running skills. Your own technical characteristics are not good Understand?Can you do the fine work?You big idiot, if you make such a mistake again, I will replace you!
Let me ask you, who is a bloody man who can bear such insults? It is clear that he is not the one who made a mistake, but he still has to bear the complaints and insults from his teammates and the head coach. How can a normal person bear it?
After the victim heard these angry complaints and insults, he must have a huge wave in his heart. He wanted to scold his teammates and explain that his running like that just now was completely reasonable, and the real mistake was the teammate who passed the ball , If it wasn't for his slow pass by a few tenths of a second, not only would he not be in an offside position, but he would also get an excellent single-handed ball opportunity.
He even wanted to run to the sidelines and tell his head coach that the failure of the attack just now was not my responsibility. It was obviously because the passing player passed the ball slowly. My teammates and the fans at the scene couldn't understand, you Why can't the head coach understand?It's fine if you don't understand, why are you complaining about me with them?Aren't you trying to drive me away?You are not the only football club in the whole world. If you don’t want me to play here, just say it directly. You don’t need to force me to leave in this way. Let me tell you, there are no masters here. Everywhere, no one stays anywhere, I'm on the railway!
It is impossible for the victim to have only this thought in his head. It is possible that after seeing those teammates with cold eyebrows, he would think of rushing to argue with these teammates and tell them that the mistake in the attack just now was not because he ran too fast. It’s because the teammate who got the ball just passed the ball too slowly, which led to the failure of the attack. The real responsibility should be to blame the person who passed the ball. You shouldn’t blame me for this body.
But after these two thoughts appeared in his mind, the victim would not take action immediately, because he knew that since everyone already believed that the mistake was his own, no matter how he stood up to defend himself, it was useless. Even guilt will only arouse the resentment of other people. Everyone will think that he is too hypocritical and refuses to admit that he has made a mistake. This kind of behavior may not only fail to clear up his grievances, but may even lead to greater misunderstandings and misunderstandings from others. Complaining, everyone may think in their hearts that he has no sense of responsibility at all, and he does not admit that he has made a mistake. That is a coward.
After having this kind of thinking, the victim will definitely suppress all his thoughts of resistance, and then silently wander around the court like a walking dead. He will completely lose his sense of existence for the rest of the game, because he His mind has been disturbed by the failed attack just now, and he can no longer concentrate on the game, which will cause his performance in the next game to plummet, and even drag the whole team back. .
Brother Bin, think about it for yourself, if other people encounter this kind of misunderstanding, isn't the situation very complicated?I think even if you face this situation, there is no good solution. You can only be like the victim I mentioned, thinking wildly for a long time, and in the end you can only silently accept the cold eyes of others, there is no way to go excuse. "
Zheng Bin was surprised. After the recent contact, he knew that Zhou Zheng's EQ was very high, but he never expected that Zhou Zheng's EQ was so high. His empathy ability is also very strong. A person with both of these abilities is very suitable to be a team leader. Moreover, the way he just put himself into others, imagining complex situations so concretely, this kind of imagination is not ordinary people. able to have.
Dazed for a second, Zheng Bin raised his hands, patted them lightly twice, and couldn't help but praise: "Zhou Zheng, what you said just now is really wonderful, I always thought that you are only crazy when there are many people, You can say some immediate and interesting things from your mouth. I didn’t realize until just now that your mouth can not only talk nonsense, but can also say some very reasonable things, especially the kind of imagination you just encountered. When you are in that predicament, your imagination is so rich, almost all the points are thought of by you, which is really amazing, if you write novels with your imagination, you may become famous."
Zhou Zheng chuckled. If he was usually praised by other people, Zhou Zheng would definitely stare and say, "Being courteous for nothing, you must have no good intentions. You'd better say what you really think in your heart, or I'll beat you up." Don't cry for a while."
This is Zhou Zheng's routine operation, because Zhou Zheng has encountered too many setbacks since he was a child. Among them, he hates the kind of people who are full of honey and swords, so this has formed a bad habit of him. As long as others praise him, he feels that others He didn't have good intentions, and sometimes he would even beat up people indiscriminately. He also knew that his behavior was a bit extreme, but he just couldn't change it.
However, after hearing Zheng Bin's praise at this moment, Zhou Zheng rarely felt any disgust in his heart, because he knew that Zheng Bin's words were from the bottom of his heart. Zheng Bin received a good education and grew up in a very good environment Superiority, which caused him to rarely experience setbacks and adversity in his short life of more than ten years. People who have not experienced difficulties have no need to lie.
Zhou Zheng raised the corners of his mouth, took out a cigarette, lit it, and said with a smile while lighting the cigarette: "Brother Bin, you still have eyes, you have discovered all the advantages of me, but I hope you don't spread it to the outside world. Keep this secret between me and you, otherwise, once I let other people know that I am so good, everyone will definitely be jealous of me.
You know, I don't know how to lie, if other people come up to me and ask me if I have so many advantages in me, I can't say no, can I? "
Three black lines appeared in the back of Zheng Bin's head, thinking that Zhou Zheng really doesn't know how to be humble at all.
"Okay, I will definitely not spread the word. But there is one thing I don't quite understand. Just now you said that if the situation happened to other people, the situation would be very complicated, but if it happened to you, things would become simple. Now, I don't know what you mean by that? Do you have a very good solution?" Zheng Bin thought for a while, and asked the doubts in his heart.
Zhou Zheng lit a cigarette, took two deep puffs, then exhaled two smoke rings, and said with a relaxed smile: "This question is easy to explain, I will explain it to you in detail now.
It's like this, if I encounter this kind of thing, first, I will never bear it; second, no matter who it is, if he ridicules me because of this incident, I will let him taste my fist. "
"Ah?" Zheng Bin was very surprised, thinking that Zhou Zheng would not be so impulsive, "You are not joking when you say that, right? Don't forget, if you really encounter this situation, those who blame you are the worst The most important people may be your teammates and your head coach. No matter how courageous you are, you can’t fight with them, right? After all, you still have to stay in this team. If you make this matter a big deal, you will suffer in the end It's still you."
Zhou Zheng laughed twice, and then said with a serious face: "I have already suffered a big loss, what are you afraid of? Let alone teammates and coaches, it is the boss of the team. If he dares to If things make fun of me, I will definitely not let him go."
Zheng Bin became nervous, because he just wanted to persuade Zhou Zheng to be calm when encountering such things in the future, but he didn't expect that what he said just now had the opposite effect. The idea of killing fish and breaking the net is too extreme. If he is not allowed to give up this idea, the team will definitely be doomed if it encounters a similar situation in the future.
"Zhou Zheng, the words you are saying now must be angry words. When you encounter similar situations in the future, you must not be arrogant. After all, even if those teammates and the head coach did not observe your difficulties and made some sarcasm to you Behavior, you can't hurt them, after all, they are all your teammates, maybe you explain a few words and they will understand the difficulties in your heart, there is no need to use fists to solve it."
Zheng Bin said cautiously, for fear that his words would have an adverse effect on Zhou Zheng's heart.
Zhou Zheng sneered twice: "Brother Bin, what should I say? A word of blaming me, or a word of daring to laugh at me, so sorry, I can't bear it, I will definitely give them a hard lesson as soon as possible.
I have also thought about what you just said, but if these people can't tell who is responsible for the failure of the attack at the first time, then it is useless to say more, because people's first impressions are often They are very stubborn. They immediately think that you are responsible for the failure of that attack. No matter how much you say, they will not change their minds. Be happy, no matter what the result is, I'll let it out anyway, and I don't care what the result is. "
(End of this chapter)
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