roccoschili Chapter 339 My aunt said
Chapter 339 My aunt said
Song Pinming and Zhou Huayun have the same idea now, that is, they must have a son, they must have a son.
He felt that Luo Wanyi, his sister-in-law, was right in saying that it was better to rely on oneself than to rely on others. One's own children may not be filial, let alone one's nephew.My nephew has biological parents, why should he put you, an uncle, first? !
It’s not like both parents are dead, but the parents are still there. Given the blood relationship, one can imagine who gets the advantage in the end? !
Just making wedding clothes for others.
Isn’t a biological daughter better than a nephew? !As long as the three girls are treated well, someone will take care of them until they die.
Moreover, it's not like he and his wife can't have children, nor can they have children.
With the work ability of the couple, it would not be a problem to raise four or five children, let alone three.
Therefore, Song Pinming felt that he could still have a fourth and fifth child. Anyway, one of them would be a son.
"Mom, if you make trouble again, then you can take Qiangzi back with you. I will only be responsible for taking care of you in your old age. Qiangzi has biological parents. Even if Po Tian goes away, it won't be my turn to raise him."
Mrs. Song also wanted to kidnap and persuade her eldest son, but Song Pinming directly said this to his mother.
The main thing is that Zhou Huayun has been gentle and affectionate towards him in the past two days, and directly mentioned to him the idea of having a son. The couple originally had the same goal and the same idea.
In fact, Song Pinming began to wake up when Aunt Zhou and the others came to the house to quarrel with his mother. He was just in his early thirties, and he was not in his 50s or [-]s. How could a young man be afraid that he would not be able to give birth to a son? !
Mrs. Song never expected that her eldest son would actually say such words, and she couldn't believe her ears.
She has been domineering in her eldest son's house for several years. She has been treated like an old Buddha in his eldest son's house since the birth of her little granddaughter. She has long been accustomed to being in the eldest son's house.
As a result... Mrs. Song got scared.
Without her eldest son's acquiescence and consent, Mrs. Song did not dare to keep her grandson anymore, so she sent her youngest son and grandson away without saying a word.
Although Song Pinming didn't let his nephew stay, he still gave him 100 yuan when his brother and his youngest son left.
The 100 yuan was given to Mrs. Song in front of her, and he even bought the ticket.
In addition, his younger brother Song Pinsheng was born empty-handed. When he returned, in addition to receiving 100 yuan, he also took away large and small bags of things.
Therefore, Song Pinsheng, who knew his own affairs, did not dare to force himself. If his brother's work had any mistakes and the old man in the family knew about it, he would definitely be finished.
Don't look at Mrs. Song being arrogant here in Song Pinming. Her wife and her uncles at home didn't see it and didn't know about it. If they knew it had an impact on Song Pinming's work, Mrs. Song would definitely be told to go back to her hometown and never see her again. Can't come out.
Mrs. Song also knew her own affairs. She was very discerning when her eldest son became assertive.
Zhou Huayun has been much more comfortable these days. Although her mother-in-law treats her with neither nose nor eyes, she does not dare to be as arrogant as before and has restrained herself more than half.
After Song Xiaoyu's two younger sisters went to her uncle's house, she felt more at ease. When she got home, she didn't really listen to what her grandma told her to do. When she got home alone, she went back to her room to do her homework, no matter how much her grandma scolded her. stay home.
When her parents came back and grandma complained to them that she was a lazy girl, she also had a lot to say.
such as……
"My mother has done a lot of work at home, and the remaining grandmother can also do it. Exercising more is good for the elderly's health. This is what my aunt said. If the elderly do not move more, they will easily get sick and die quickly."
"My aunt also said that my main tasks now are to study, pass the high school exam well, find a good job, earn money to be filial to my parents, and buy books and delicious food for my brothers."
"My aunt also said that Brother Qiangzi is older than me. A boy has never worked since he was a child. When he grows up, he will not want to do anything. He only wants to eat his old age, only wants money, and lies at home asking for food every day. If you want to drink it, isn’t it just a waste?! Can you still count on it?! It’s good if you don’t get angry to death.”
"My aunt said that if you don't work hard and just rely on others, it's like a leech sucking blood. It keeps sucking blood. If you don't suck it, you can't get rid of it. Dad, since Brother Qiangzi is living in our house now, he can't feed people to waste. , I don’t do anything and I don’t know how to do anything. From now on, if I really become an idle person, how long can grandma take care of her?! Why don’t we let our family take care of it?! If our family doesn’t take care of it, my uncle and aunt will not be allowed to talk to my parents. Desperately?! Because grandma said Brother Qiangzi was sent to our house to be a son for dad to take care of until he is old."
Yes, these words were really said by Luo Wanyi, and she personally taught them to the little girl.
It's not that Luo Wanyi doesn't pay attention to the healthy physical and mental development of her children, nor is it that she wants to teach her children bad things.
Times are different.
The ideas of this era are far less liberated than those that were liberated after three generations of struggle and struggle decades later. The patriarchal preference for decades still exists, but it is not as serious.
Moreover, many parents have experienced that their sons are not as reliable as their daughters, and they have to rely on their daughters to take care of them before the hospital bed. Without comparison, there is no harm. Until that day, they don’t know whether their adopted sons are reliable, but most of their daughters are still reliable. .
Therefore, as long as the family's finances are okay, some family property will usually be distributed to the daughter, and all children are treated equally in law, so the most important thing in children's education is spiritual feelings.
However, how can the current situation of the Song family allow the three little girls to grow up healthily physically and mentally? !Mrs. Song had already gone through all the trouble, so Luo Wanyi could only teach Song Xiaoyu these things.
Of course, Luo Wanyi had no intention of leaving her niece alone. When she went on summer vacation, she would take her over and give her good care and the right education.
Now it is a last resort.
Song Xiaoyu's words shocked Song Pinming and Zhou Huayun. Zhou Huayun didn't think much and just felt relieved after hearing it. But Song Pinming, as a man and the head of the family, had different thoughts.
My daughter had to say it was so damn right.
Why hadn't he thought of this before? !Her eldest aunt was indeed right. He really raised his nephew. If his nephew raised him well, he might not repay her in return.But if you can't raise it well, it must be your own fault.
Song Pinming thought about it seriously and carefully reviewed the words of his eldest daughter. He felt that raising a son for his younger brother would be better than raising his own daughter.
What if one day the younger brother and his family were to lie down and suck his blood, and he would be like a piece of candy that couldn't be shaken off? There would be no peace at all.
"That aunt of yours is bad and can't see others being nice. Our Qiangzi is such a good and smart kid. Why does she say that?! Her aunt is too bad and not a good person. She said this to make our family bad. Live your life, you lose your conscience."
Mrs. Song was so angry at what her eldest granddaughter said that she couldn't help but cursed loudly. She hated Luo Wanyi so much that her teeth itched in her heart.
"My eldest aunt said that if she said this, my grandma would definitely scold her, but my aunt said that reality speaks louder than words. Mom, I have to study hard, find a good job when I grow up, and bring honor to my family."
Song Xiaoyu said calmly again, repeatedly stating that it was not that she did not work, but that studying was her main task. It was not that no one was working at home, otherwise why would she need milk? !Become Lafayette? !
Anyway, Song Pinming understood her subtext, and Zhou Huayun also felt that her daughter made sense.
"Mom, we don't have much to talk about at home. Sweeping the floor, wiping the table, and washing vegetables can be done by Xiaoyu, and Qiangzi can do it, too. Mom can do it at home. We don't have much to do at home, so we can finish it quickly together."
"Mom, in addition to going to school, Qiangzi should also help with some work when he comes home. The boy can't do anything, so you will always support him from now on?! Let me tell you first, I am not his biological father and mother, and I am not his biological father or mother now. I will not interfere in his affairs. What he will look like in the future will not depend on me. I have to talk to my father about this matter. Otherwise, what will happen if my brother and sister-in-law rely on me when you are no longer around?! "
After Song Pinming came to his senses, he no longer planned to obey his mother in everything, especially when it came to his nephew. Everything else was fine.
He even decided to take the time to call his hometown and talk to his father. He provided delicious food and drink for his nephew. He had agreed in advance that he, the uncle, was not to blame for the child's failure to grow well.
Mrs. Song: "..."
Why is it another bad day? !